Let the good times roll with romantic relationship
India or Indonesia, Russia or Romania
Romantic relationship has common criteria
What a beautiful and suggestive lines of a lyrical fantasy! All over the world, or probably if the human species existed on any other planet, romance relationship sprouts and then dwells on common criteria. It begins with flying touch or tying clinch; with tangential contact or head-to-head collision. In either of the cases, the hearts of both man and woman flutter like wings of butterflies. The sound of hum and sigh are the indicators, revealing the process called as ‘love’ has germinated.
Considering the love as ‘work-in-progress’, decent people of all the communities of the world allow them to convert hum into song and sigh into cry. Don’t worry. The tears too have important role in romance. Tears of joy and tears of sorrow have different chemical properties, but the diversity brings euphoria, anxiety and thrill in the ‘Rore’. Rore is abbreviation, introduced by me, for ROmantic RElationship. (Please forgive me for intervening in the area of linguistic masters.)
Well, the topic of the chemistry has inadvertently opened with tears. However, it’s amazing that all the body secretions from different glands in the body of human beings change when the work called ‘love’ is in progress. Adrenaline, pituitary, thyroid, all these organs squirt disproportionate chemicals to convert mates into soul-mates.
Human body is an organized structure containing complex brain, ceaselessly pumping heart, miles of blood vessels, cords of muscles, skeleton of bones and nerves…. This entire structure gets charged and begins dancing with internal choreographic tunes to orchestrate the faculties like imagination, feelings and attraction.
The romantic relationship is strengthened with healthy mind, abiding basic principles laid down in world class literature and religious books. It is similar to the healthy tree with strong roots, sturdy trunk and graceful branches holding spherical canopy. It attracts bees, by imparting beautiful hues to the petals of flowers, to get pollinated. In human Rore, one has to use cosmetics and perfumes to appeal and appease opposite sex. The tree blossoms in the season and subsequently bears fruits. The foliage gives shelter and shadow while fruits savor the tongues of passerby. The immunity and resistance of the tree safeguards it from fungal or bacterial attacks. The corollary applies literally to romantic relationship. The Rore has to be shielded from viral diseases like ego, enviousness. The microbes like constant complaining and incessant nagging always ruin the Rore.
Every romantic relationship varies and displays different kaleidoscopic combination. In eastern part of the world, both man and woman keep bowing to display the love mixed with honor. Then the girl smiles standing miles apart from the boy. Intention is nothing else than to establish Rore, but haste displays lust. Both, without satiating thirst, keep trying to win trust. Thrust follows.
In oriental countries, couple enters into romantic relations after jogging over various stumbling blocks. These are introductory ‘salam, namaskar or halo’, bashfulness and playing the games like hide and seek. And after weeks or in some cases even after months the woman allows man to hold her hand. And once the hand is handed over, the body attached to the hands follows to gear up the romance.
Whereas in western part, even at the first meet, men don’t waste time and quickly settle embracing miss with embarrassing kiss. They prefer crushing to brushing. No bowing, no vowing, just towing. Why waste time in composing poetry on the beauty comparing it with moon, when by that time they can begin their honeymoon!
Though the speed of the game varies, the aim is same; to reach to the destination called ‘love’, catching the train of romantic relationship.
February 22nd, 2010 at 11:28 pm
I like the first point you made there, but I am not sure I could reasonably apply that in a productive way.
February 24th, 2010 at 11:55 pm
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