Treasures of Life

Be slow in choosing

Be slower in losing

If the above maxim related to relationship advice is engraved on the walls, sculpted in all the compartments of your heart, the success in establishing long lasting relationship is guaranteed.

The compatibility has to be cultivated, and then nourished. If we are heedless in keeping the synergy intact, allergy enters inadvertently and ruins the system.

Love at first sight, in majority of the cases, is nothing but lust at first sight. And the effect is so hypnotic that the thought of assessing an everlasting harmony doesn’t pop in. The mind is under the mesmeric and magnetic influence.

Now, according to the law of averages, fifty percent of such marital relations last; and fifty percent collapse in their voyage. However,majority of the failures can be arrested, if both the spouses are sensible enough to have the advice of the sane people around us. When we understand that we have committed blunder, we start feeling, we have been trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. But the seasoned veterans show you the method: How to file the edges of the square peg and make it round.

Don’t hurry, when the ferry is caught in the storm, think a way out with an optimism and faith in God. Remember, ‘Be slower in losing’.First of all resolve, then cogitate upon as many options, seek the relationship advice. Slowly wound shall heal. Relation shall last forever. An experienced grandma’s dictum is absolutely correct, ‘Hurry spoils the curry!'.

GJ Bajaj

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