Treasures of Life

People first ignore then forget romancing. And the marriage deteriorates very fast.

'My budget is trim and tight. I am overburdened with my day to day work. Where's the time? Bringing up children is not a joke. How can I keep romancing at the cost of ignoring kids at their delicate age?'

If these reasons are insufficient, then the other supporting reasons are immediately available. 'I am too old to indulge romance. Given the choice, I have chosen participating religious activities. I have already given much to my spouse; now shouldn't I entertain (or get entertained by) my friends? I have to meet social obligations too.'

There are 'n' number of reasons or alibis to prove that, albeit, these people are interested to cherish romance, the other priorities have taken over.

Now we have to agree all their logical arguments that romance is no more or stale cake for these living spouses. And we have to witness apathy slowly stepping up severity in their marital problems, consequently leading to unhappiness.

The monster named as 'negative approach' has the power to kill the dash and instinct of any enterprising youth. Then will it not smash the poor romance down from the week minds of married couples, and make their lives monotonous? This 'negative approach' fades or erases away the real cause, the basic purpose of married life. It makes the sex anemic, it makes the passion bland. It converts the lengthy life ahead to insipidity at the very time they enter the second and richer phase of enjoyment.

Wake up people, wake up. Don't let your married life be forced to abstinence, with your own negative thinking. You shall be surprised to know that, giving due importance, even after seventies or eighties, people enjoy the married life.

Avoiding visits to costly hotels, the people with stringently tight budgets prefer the restaurants with moderately priced menus. Even there are the people who cook their food at home, carry it to any lush green lawns and enjoy the evening with flying colors. They possess the list of such locations where they can spread the carpets and dance with revelry in the vicinity of the nature. River banks, country side orchards, small waterfalls are ready to pour joy into your cupped hands; much more than the costly beaches, gardens or water parks.

People find some or other creative solution as regards to their kids. They leave their kids to neighbors or relatives and reciprocating by attending their babies when they need to go for outings.

Their marriage is the happiest who positively resolve to enjoy it up to the last breath. In the period of global recession, they consistently audit their approach and behavior; set innovative techniques of romancing. They refer to the books of accounts called as romance novels. And they put the stop loss in the account of affection, and successfully survive from marital bankruptcy.

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